Ten years ago I wondered if my husband would ever talk to me about the affair and his relationship with the OW. At the time, it sure did not seem like he was going to, ever. He actually said those words, “I will never talk to anybody about it ever.” He eventually started talking. He was a dripping faucet at first, the barest minimum of … Continue reading Uninhibited
I am all about understanding things, looking at them, trying to get the intended meaning behind what is being said, or in some cases, not being said. And after an affair, even many years after an affair, we can find ourselves still longing for understanding and meaning. Because understanding is relevant to being understood. Needing to understand is indeed a need. Sometimes we want to … Continue reading To Understand
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