I lost the diamond out of my wedding ring. It goes without saying that I’m fairly devastated about the whole thing. First of all, it was not a cheap diamond. It wasn’t insured. But, it’s the sentimental value that is getting to me. I’m fairly certain that it is somewhere in my house. And while the diamond is big in comparison to other diamonds, in … Continue reading Diamonds and Rhinestones
We just returned from a vacation in the mountains. I highly recommend a mountain trip to truly do some soul searching and find yourself and each other again. We went to one of our favorite places. The odd thing is, this place is also where it began for them on an overnight business trip. But, it was our place first and the thought of that … Continue reading Mountains
My husband is off this week from work and we are working on Spring Cleaning. This, of course, has brought up all the things we let go around our house because of the affair. He states that he is going to work on the pool and get it open. This was the biggest thing that was neglected at our house. We will need to get … Continue reading Step by Step
My journey through finding out my husband had an affair and then a small miracle that changed everything.
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Hello friends! We had the opportunity for a weekend away with two of our children. We had a soccer tournament and spent the weekend a few hours away in another city ( same city as my lovely friend the other wife lives ). We needed this little trip away. The boys were still grieving for their dog, as were we, and a different place was … Continue reading The Walk
I have a list of things I want to say to the OW, but probably won't. But, the title there above is a big one. Her smug and callous bragging that she screwed my husband on the sheets he bought her still makes my blood boil. But, at the same time I want to throw it back at her. After all, those sheets will never … Continue reading How are those sheets working out for you now?
Today is my anniversary. To all of you reading this, you know all of the emotions and expectations and joy and sadness that anniversaries can bring. After an affair your senses are in overdrive. You, without thinking, expect more, the over-the-top, as if some fabulous anniversary of surprises and romance can wipe away the pain of betrayal. We know that it won't, but we want … Continue reading Anniversary
Life has been going pretty well friends. I am feeling better than I have in a long time. I really love to write, so today I started a new blog. I have two others besides this one, both on WordPress, but this time I went with another site. I'm trying to stay as anonymous as I can. I loved the name of my recent blog, … Continue reading Feeling Good
For some unknown reason, that maybe only the rest of you could possibly understand, I have found myself creeping on the OW's blog. She hasn't updated it in months, and I know this. So why do I keep looking? No idea. But, if you have the answer, please share. I keep asking myself why I even care. But, for some reason I do. We both … Continue reading What is wrong with me?
When dealing with affairs we typically see the emotional effects. All of the invisible pain that everybody in the family feels. But, as I'm sure we have all experienced, there is also damage to the physical aspects of your life. For us, it's been closets. From the moment I found out my mind and body shut down. My huge house and my huge family got … Continue reading Damage unseen