Sometimes the grass is greener on the other side because it’s fake

I think all affairs start out with the premise that the grass is greener over there, and I’m going to jump the fence to spread out in the lushness of that greener grass.  But, in nearly every case, it is eventually discovered that that just quite isn’t the case.  In my husband’s case, he found out that not only was the grass not greener, it … Continue reading Sometimes the grass is greener on the other side because it’s fake

Anniversaries and feet and inches

Here on the east coast we just had one whopper of a winter storm.  What started out as a forecast for inches of snow, turned out to be more of a feet event.  And today, WordPress informed me it was my two-year anniversary for this blog.  You’re probably wondering how all of that could possibly be related to each other. When I started this blog … Continue reading Anniversaries and feet and inches

Five Years, three years, a lifetime

It’s hard to believe it’s been almost five years since I found out what I didn’t want to find out.  It was numbing and unthinkable and inconceivable.  I didn’t think it was real for the longest time.  Then I went into FBI mode and managed to accomplish what a lot of professional people couldn’t.  I was able to record their conversations, when they were alone … Continue reading Five Years, three years, a lifetime

She’s no home wrecker!

Well, we took down the Christmas decorations and my daughter will be going back to school.  January is always a little bit of a downer.  But, we worked together to put all of the stuff away and took our daughter shopping tonight to get some things she needed, and we are looking forward to 2016.  We are thinking about getting some new furniture, so we … Continue reading She’s no home wrecker!

New Year

I can’t believe we are this far into the new year already.  Time does fly.  One of my younger sons opened up to me yesterday about how scared he was when we were fighting and asked me if everything was perfect again.  Perfect…that word kind of stings.  While I have always conceded there is no such thing as perfect, I always thought things were perfect … Continue reading New Year