Her picture popped up on my newsfeed today……..twice

The OW long ago blocked me on Facebook.  But, today, her picture popped up in a group photo associated with another friend.  They are in a leadership organization together.  I don’t think I was prepared to see that.  And then, she popped up again in the background of another photo.  My son’s girlfriend went to a concert last night with her friend.  And there in … Continue reading Her picture popped up on my newsfeed today……..twice

Cereal at midnight

I just had cereal.  I know, it’s really not anything very remarkable.  But it is.  For the longest time, if I had a craving for cereal at midnight I could not indulge.  Why, you ask?  Because he would believe that I was spying on him, looking at his phone, etc.  When I could have cereal again at midnight I knew that she was gone.  The … Continue reading Cereal at midnight

Strange Connections

Something odd happened today.  Maybe you won’t think it’s odd.  Here’s the thing, she and I have a long history of this weird connection.  I wouldn’t use the word connection, but maybe strange coincidences, but it’s more than that.  It’s definitely an unshakeable connection.  At first it was coincidences….both born in the same state, birthdays within two days of each other, fathers had the same … Continue reading Strange Connections


We just returned from a vacation in the mountains.  I highly recommend a mountain trip to truly do some soul searching and find yourself and each other again.  We went to one of our favorite places.  The odd thing is, this place is also where it began for them on an overnight business trip.  But, it was our place first and the thought of that … Continue reading Mountains