Just venting

My life has been stressful lately.  Fortunately, the one part of my life that hasn’t been stressful is my marriage.  My dad has been in the hospital for nearly two months.  Aging parents and dealing with the mortality of your parents is something that is hard to deal with I’m finding.  While the health part is going well, the physical therapy part is rocky.  Being … Continue reading Just venting

Tis the Season

This came up on my Facebook memories today……..”(My name) is thankful to be married to the  greatest man ever!”.   This memory was dated November 19th, 2010.  Unbeknownst to me, a mere 16 days prior he was getting a blowjob in a hotel from Bobbie.  I screenshot the memory and sent it off to the “other wife”. Her response was……….. “:(.  It’s a tough time … Continue reading Tis the Season

Crumbs aren’t a banquet

One thing that people who engage in extramarital affairs all have in common is that they are all willing to imagine that the crumbs they are receiving is in reality a banquet.  They feast on those crumbs and call it dinner.  But why?  Why would anyone think so little of themselves that they essentially start seeing someone who is already in a sense cheating on … Continue reading Crumbs aren’t a banquet

Remember

Over the weekend a friend asked me how I overcame the affair.  This person’s sister had just discovered her husband was having an affair.  I replied without hesitation that you don’t overcome affairs as much as you learn to live with the reality of them.  That is overcoming them, learning to live with them, including all of the pieces, no matter how sharp, jagged, or … Continue reading Remember