For the longest time I would silently wonder if my husband was comparing me to Bobbie. Was he comparing our love making, or my cooking, or any of the things that make me who I am? In fact, I have probably asked him about 500 times over the last 10 years if he ever did this comparison. He insists that he has not, that we … Continue reading Comparison is the thief
One of the biggest complaints I see from people caught up in affairs is the silence from their partner after the affair is over. I went through that as well. In fact, my husband point-blank told me he would never talk to me about the affair. Of course, if you read my blog, you know he actually did talk to me eventually. He needed time … Continue reading Bring your honor, bring your shame
I heard a song a while back that I knew would, without a doubt, remind my husband of the OW. Knowing that my husband not only doesn’t like this artist I knew that there was no danger whatsoever that he would ever hear this song…..unless he was in my car and my music was playing. I’ll be honest, I rarely play Russian roulette with my … Continue reading Friend Hat
Believe it or not, my husband is a highly moral person. And that makes the cheating all the more unbelievable. And he has very little tolerance for those he considers immoral….which sometimes puts me over the edge, because, obviously, he was immoral at one point. So, last week we were Easter shopping for the kids and he was telling me about the book he’s listening … Continue reading Red lights-Greenlights
Let’s talk about cheating and why people cheat. If you look up the definition of infidelity it says being unfaithful to a spouse or sexual parter. And if you look up unfaithful it says not adhering to vows, allegiance or duty. But, inevitably what it means at the core is, changing partners without the current partner’s consent. So, the question is, why would anyone do … Continue reading The real reason
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