The Healing Process

My husband and I have a conversation scheduled.  I think without actually saying it to each other, it will be the last time we ever talk about her or the affair again.  It’s funny, because I’m not sure how I feel about the possibility that we would never speak of her again, well, at least not in conjunction with the affair.  Suffering is something that … Continue reading The Healing Process

Humpty Dumpty was Pushed

I took some time away from my blog, a mental health break.  I was trying to think through my next steps, if there are any steps left.  There are no manuals on how to work through and get past an affair.  But, I suppose there are blogs like these that we can all share our stories.  And, really, that’s what we all really want…to be … Continue reading Humpty Dumpty was Pushed

From his lips she drew the Hallelujah

“Well your faith was strong but you needed proof You saw her bathing on the roof Her beauty and the moonlight overthrew ya She tied you to her kitchen chair And she broke your throne and she cut your hair And from your lips she drew the Hallelujah“   Whenever I hear this song, this verse always stands out.  Most especially the part about breaking … Continue reading From his lips she drew the Hallelujah

The smallest of words

My husband and I were in a deep conversation today about the affair and about opening up to each other.  We had been having this conversation in pieces, because let’s face it, we don’t have the luxury right now of a full-on sit-down conversation with each other that doesn’t involve a sporting event.  But, we were alone in the car together and found 10 minutes … Continue reading The smallest of words