There are five stages of grief. And let’s be honest, an affair throws you into grief. Even if you manage to save your marriage, you still have to mourn the loss of what was. DENIAL: I’ll be honest here, I don’t know if I will ever really not be in denial of a some sort. It still doesn’t seem possible. The facts all … Continue reading Acceptance
I have purposely avoided coming here. I mean, I truly haven’t had a lot of time, and it seems like the more info I have squeezed into my brain about this the worse I feel. So, where I left off was preliminary contact with another wife whose life had been also impacted by my OW. I feel I need to clarify here since there are … Continue reading Chasing the sky into the ocean
I am super tired, but I really had to come here for a least a few words to tell you all the latest. So, I was perusing an email I rarely use, and I can’t remember the last time I was on there, but, if I recall, it was the email I used in the comments on this blog to get in contact with the … Continue reading You can’t make this stuff up
After reading some blogs today and reading some comments and answering, something struck me. I remembered something that my husband had said to me a pretty long time ago, something I probably should have listened to, a thought I would have been better for if I had entertained that thought. He told me that I thought more about her than he did. I blew that … Continue reading Is it the affair or the OW holding you back?