One nap eight years apart

My husband and I have a nice tradition of epic Christmas Day naps. We are usually up very late on Christmas Eve and then up very early on Christmas Day. The nap is actually quite necessary. After the relationship between my husband and Bobbie ended one of the things he told me was how he snuck down to our garage to call her on Christmas … Continue reading One nap eight years apart

Because I want to

Back in the beginning of the affair Bobbie started a blog. It had nothing to do with affairs, but rather fashion. And it was about fashion, but it was also interlaced with subtle messages to him or me, or maybe even some other guy. If the normal person read it they would not notice this, but my husband and I noticed. My husband said at … Continue reading Because I want to

Need to know, have to know

Back when I was a kid my parents always made a big deal about Christmas. And I have a lot of good memories surrounding the holidays. My dad always took his vacation the week between Christmas and New Year so that we could all be together. Up until I was like in 6th grade any wrapped gifts we would get would be from other people, … Continue reading Need to know, have to know

In Retrospect

Last night I was reading an article on Marie Claire called Famous Co-stars who didn’t get along in real life. There were the usual suspects, Meryl Streep and Dustin Hoffman, Julia Roberts and Nick Nolte, Bette Davis and Joan Crawford, etc. Then Blake Lively and Leighton Meester came up. I did not initially really know who those two were, but I knew I had heard … Continue reading In Retrospect

Good Will

I love this time of year. My husband always says it’s the three Fs-Family-Football-Food. I agree, except for the football part. My husband has been in a very Christmassy mood this year. He’s been in a great mood period. He brought home flowers the day before Thanksgiving and he’s been asking me to watch Christmas movies! I can’t ever remember a time when he asked … Continue reading Good Will