I guess that’s goodbye

I had not visited the OW’s blog in a long time.  And because late nights make you do dumb things, I decided to give hers a quick visit.  And it had been deleted.  I’ll be honest, I was shocked.  Not that it has anything to do with me, but I would never delete my writings.  And I honestly can’t imagine that she would either.  But, … Continue reading I guess that’s goodbye

What does that look like?

Things are interesting here on the home front.  The saga at work continues.  The unknowns are adding up.  And where this all is going is the biggest unknown of all.  My husband is very stressed about all of it.  But, as he confided to me last night, he is most stressed out about the likelihood that he will have to take over a lot of … Continue reading What does that look like?

A lot of magic and a little reality

My husband and I spent a most magical week together last week.  We were like kids again and fell in love over and over again!  My husband said that something moved him every single day.  We felt like teenagers on a week-long date!  Everything was perfect!  And I don’t think either of us wanted it to end. And while the trip may have ended the … Continue reading A lot of magic and a little reality

Emotional Archaeologist

I have always been a bit of a digger.  I have always taken a closer look than most would at most everything.  I like to “read” faces and actions and inspect things deeper.  But, after my husband’s affair that trait seems to have intensified with me.  I find myself turning things over in my head much more and examining much closer.  Maybe it’s all in … Continue reading Emotional Archaeologist