I am super tired, but I really had to come here for a least a few words to tell you all the latest. So, I was perusing an email I rarely use, and I can’t remember the last time I was on there, but, if I recall, it was the email I used in the comments on this blog to get in contact with the other wife. Anyway, there were quite a few emails. One was from one of my readers on here….I will get back to you soon! And then, there it was…..another email from another wife who found my blog whose husband had slept with the OW. She sent that email to me over a month ago. Unfortunately I am crazy busy the next few days, but I did send her an email back to say that I received it and I was sorry that it had taken me so long to respond. Luckily, she’s still willing to talk to me. I will be going crazy the next few days until probably the end of next week before I can have that conversation with this woman. I haven’t told my husband yet. And I’m debating telling him at all. I also haven’t told the other wife yet. But, texting her is at the top of my list.
I’m beginning to believe that there were many others besides my husband and the other husband during the same time period. I suppose it doesn’t matter now. But, as I was sitting at my son’s game tonight I was thinking about Bobbie and wondering why she thinks so little of herself that she needs the attention of so many men. My sister thinks it is society in general. Men and women working together, riding in cars together to meetings, basically just being too close to the opposite sex. I can remember arguing with her about this once. Of course, that was when I had complete trust in my husband. I remember specifically a few months before I found out, that she had sent an email saying that she had been side-swiped. He didn’t even hide that he was calling to check on her, because I didn’t think anything of it. He was her superior and it never even phased me that he was checking on her.
All of this conversation lately about looking to see what the OW is up to made me want to see what the OW was up to. I didn’t want to ask my friend. It really wasn’t a spying thing as much as a general wonder what she’s up to thing. And I suppose I don’t really need to know. I kind of feel dumb for even wondering. I will try my hardest to avoid asking the friend. Sometimes I think though, just checking every once in a while appeases that desire to know and let’s you be in peace for a while.
I will share more of all of this later. Send me your good thoughts and most of all patience, while I wait to learn the details of the next bombshell.